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Describe yourself in 3 words.

Me and my niece on a roller coaster for small children.

 

 

I recently asked my brother to describe me in three words. ¬†He said…….

 

 

 

  1. candid (“sometimes, you’re too honest”)
  2. idealistic (“not everything is black and white, Shannon”)
  3. dramatic. ūüėÄ

 

 

 

 

I’m not sure if it anyone can be summed up in three words but it’s fun to try. ¬†What would yours be? ¬†And would you trust your close friends to describe you accurately?

 

 

 

 

Hope you’re having a great Easter week and have some fun things to look forward to.

 

 

Recent Reads

 

Here are some descriptions and books I’ve read recently. ¬†Do you like to read? ¬†I love reading, especially out in the sunshine or in bed on a rainy night. ¬†I’m fairly picky, and as hard as I try to enjoy non-fiction, I definitely prefer fiction. ¬†What are you reading these days? ¬†Any good recommends?

 

 

The Light Between Oceans:

This is about a veteran who comes back to Australia from World War I, gets married, and becomes a lighthouse keeper. ¬†His wife, Isabel, has many miscarriages before a¬†boat mysteriously washes ashore with a dead man and a crying baby inside. ¬†Isabel convinces her husband to take the baby in, and after many years of peacefully raising her, they run into the baby’s biological mother; things get very ugly and complicated. The writing in this book is beautiful; M.L Stedman has a knack for showing small-town gossip and the loyalty of children. ¬†I remember waiting for a connection while reading this book, with a lot of tears flowing. ¬†This book made me appreciate the¬†work that goes into making a family. It’s a great read.

 

 

 

 

The Smartest Kids in the World:

If you have ever had a conversation with me, I’ve already told you that you *must* read this book. ¬†I’ve also blogged about it, a lot. ¬†Amanda Ripley follows three student exchanges in Poland, Finland, Korea, and America and learns about how different cultures address learning, and what makes their education systems tick. ¬†She distills the problems we’re facing and articulates the best ideas for solutions, ¬†all in an entertaining way. ¬†If you care at all about education, this is a great read.

 

 

 

 

 The Girl on the Train:

This book is creepy! ¬†It’s told from many different perspectives, but none of them are particularly trustworthy. ¬†Rachel, the main storyteller, imagines the life of a couple whose house she sees while passing on the train each day, until one day, when the female goes missing, and Rachel gets tangled up in trying to find her. Coincidentally, Rachel’s addicted to the bottle, and passes out at *just* the right moments, so that you miss the critical details pointing ¬†to the murderer. ¬†Lots of affairs and jealousy (and f-bombs if I remember correctly). I especially loved piecing everything together at the end. This is hard to put down if you like a dirty mystery.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Enchanted:

I found this book at Powell’s books in Portland, on a shelf of books that had won little-known awards. ¬†It’s about a prison full of inmates waiting to die on death row and it follows the woman who is trying to find information that could save the inmates from execution. It is horrifying, violent, and full of many sad stories. ¬†It’s not explicit, but there is a lot of rape and corruption. ¬†Not surprisingly, the stories of the criminals are heart-wrenching, unfair, and disturbing, but the author ties magical elements and words throughout the storyline, making it compelling and even inspiring. ¬†I don’t know how to explain it, but this book is absolutely wondrous. The author shows love, sadness, and human needs so deeply and intensely. ¬†If you like a profound read about humanity, read this.

 

 

 

 

Where’d You Go Bernadette?

This book is funny, but it’s awkward humor. ¬†It made a lot more sense to me once I realized that the author wrote for Arrested Development. ¬† Bee is a 15 year old girl living in Seattle and her mother, Bernadette is on the verge of a mental breakdown, when she (the mother) disappears. ¬†There are many highlights, but my favorite part is when Bee’s super awkward, fanny-pack-wearing,¬†atheist dad¬†tries to make ¬†dorky, ¬†encouraging conversation with Bee about the church group she’s recently started going to with a friend. ¬†It is so painfully awkward, forced, disingenuously enthusiastic, familiar to me (not with my family, but practically every date I’ve been on), and hilarious. ¬†Did your parents go through that phase in your teenage years? ¬†Where they try so hard to understand you, and they say ridiculous things to try to win you over? ¬†Anyway, this is funny.

 

 

 

 

 

The Kite Runner

This was popular a long time ago;¬† another heartbreaker and with shocking plot twists. ¬†I just¬†just¬†finished it. ¬†It’s about two boys growing up in Afghanistan and one of them is sweet and selfless and the other, Amir, is the exact opposite. ¬†The writing is stellar; the plot twists are riveting. ¬†It’s a story of redemption and it makes me want to hug and rescue every orphan and child born into poverty. ¬†¬†I recommend it if you like something meaningful and well-written.

 

 

 

 

100 More Things Designers Need to Know about People

This is a book of cool psychology hacks. And it comes in nice bite-sized packages so you can put it down and pick it ¬†up and not keep track of any plot. ¬†My favorite sections are the ones explaining the three parts of your brain that induce those blessed aha moments you live for: the executive action brain, the default brain, and the ¬†salience network brain. ¬†The salient network constantly monitors and stores everything that comes into your brain: information, sensory input, your executive action brain (problems you’re trying to solve) and the default network brain (doing whatever, without much focus). ¬†Your salient brain is what thinks of ideas from years past and what integrates lots of ideas together to help come up with a solution, that aha moment. Cool, right? This book is chock full of¬†fascinating things about people as well human technology interaction.

 

 

 

The Will Power Instinct

I started reading this book because I thoroughly enjoyed Kelly McGonigals’ TED talk about stress, and I secretly really want to sneak into her classes at Stanford, because she’s such a great speaker! My confession is that I haven’t finished this book, which perhaps says something about my own lack of will power. ūüôā ¬†It’s full of fun psychology tidbits and studies, and the author is super entertaining, but I am sometimes skeptical of the psychology studies in general. They just don’t always seem accurate. ¬†Still, there are some good hacks in here, about practicing and building will power; harnessing shame and pride to make better choices and how powerful dopamine triggers are. ¬†Read this if you’re looking for some self-improvement hacks (or if you have more self-discipline than I do, evidently ¬†;D ).

 

 

 

Happy reading and happy hump day!

 

 

 

 

Abstract: the art of Design

Have you seen Abstract on Netflix?! I’m in love with it. So well done and inspiring.

So design is super trendy right now, partly because it’s so pervasive. It’s about function, clarity, practicality, and convenience……..and art.  And elements of that are included in pretty much everything!  

Highlights:

-In the interior design episode (8),  Ilse Crawford  explains that when a room is designed right, with each element in the right way, there’s a feeling of relaxation that is invisible to the person enjoying it.

She is a genius.

-In the Christoph Niemann episode (1), when he gets in an argument with the cameraman about how they’re filming…. while they’re filming.

-the part with Michael Jordan in it.

I really loved episodes 1 (illustration), 6 (graphic design & type), 7 (photography), and 8 (interior design).

Hope you love it too!

Ps. Due credit to taza’s insta feed feed from many years ago, which inspired me to be bold and shamelessly love on anything pretty (or ugly, or just plain fascinating).

Christmas Pictures

 

Here are my super late Christmas pictures. =D This year’s was fabulously low-key. ¬†Christmas Eve we always go to our cousins’ house, watch the nativity, sing the Twelve Days of Christmas, and jam loudly on our dingers.¬†¬† And then our Christmas day is pretty standard with a couple of family traditions.¬† This year we had thought about maybe not doing any presents and just relaxing, but there was a certain member of my family who was very NOT on board with that …. soo we caved and ended up getting presents for each other. That’s the way it goes, right? And there were some good gifts this year, so it’s probably a good thing. Do you like presents? Do you ever find them sort of stressful?

Anyhoo, here are some pictures of our festivities:

This year’s nativity. Starring really cute fraternal twins¬†as Mary & Joseph :).

 

Christmas day post-church presents distribution.

 

 

 

 

A Pelican box, a Bosch box, and a new red tablecloth.

 

 

A new warm coat for my cute little sister. I love this person a lot.

 

Books & video camera tripod holders

 

My brother gave my mom an Alexa and an extension so that it will turn the lights on and off when you say to. My mom’s kind of obsessed with it and I think it put her¬†on a bit of a power trip.

 

Dinner @ China Chilcano’s in DC. Get the tasting menu!

 

One more little tidbit of news (is this bragging? … or not..?) is that Ben Carson bought his new house just up from my mom and dad’s and I’ve got my elevator speech all set for when I brush shoulders with my new favorite secretary of housing and urban development!

ha.  just kidding. no speech.

Thanks for reading! ūüôā ¬†Hope you’re having a great short week.

 

Listening is the New Talking

 

 

What do you think?  I like the gist of it.  Listening to/empathizing with people with different opinions = good.

Asking thoughtful questions.

Ok I won’t say anything else political! ¬†Hope you’re having a lovely and productive week!